Sugar Coating the TRUTH
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"Honesty is better than sugar coated bullshit!" ~Unknown

This is not a sweet, or a delicious topic. It is the real truth and I will not SUGAR COAT WHAT I WANT TO SAY! 

As long as our society wants to ignore the TRUTH about childhood sexual abuse, rape and the ongoing perversion raging in our society at the expense of our YOUTH, life will continue to be a struggle for those who are victims of the most horrific crimes against the innocent! 

 My sexual abuse was a tragic sugar-coated-cover up by the adults in my life that were making VERY sick decisions to satisfy their demonic lustful desires. I am not responsible for them in my recovery! I am responsible for digging out the cavities in my mind and healing the holes in my soul caused by their bullshit leftover from their trauma. Hurt people hurt people. In my case, and in the cases of many sexually abuse children, their abusers were sexually abused. 

Life is not over until it is over. If everyone still insists on SUGAR COATING THE TRUTH OF CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE AND RAPE, IT WILL NEVER END and many more struggling souls will lose their lives because of the mental noise that cannot be tuned out. 

As victims in recovery we don't have to think about it all the time, nor do we need to harp on it or focus on it everyday- IT does that for us. It takes a lot of courage, hard work and long-term therapy to silence the voices in our heads. Some days are better than others and some days we need so much more help than we ask for. In the end it is peer-to-peer connection that guides many toward the light of recovery, not the darkness of the past. BUT if SOCIETY continues to ignore this, it will only get worse and we will lose so many more. 

So, I AM MORE DETERMINED THAN EVER TO TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT EVERY GRAIN OF SUGAR COATED BULLSHIT. I am in recovery and my life is on the mend, but many still suffer IN SILENCE from the trauma of such horrific crimes against the innocence. If you can't see that than you are BLINDLY indulging in the dangers of SUGAR COATING THE TRUTH!

And, don't cry for those you don't speak out for because if you don't become part of the solution you are the problem. How is that for complete honesty. I told you this would not be sweet cause I am sick of all the phony BULLSHIT! 

"Honesty is better than sugar coated bullshit!" ~Unknown

In honorable memory of Chester Bennington, whose lyrics guided my soul through the darkest moments in my recovery from Childhood Sexual Abuse. I feel his words, I echo his pain, and I will live every day of my life with more determination and courage to never SUGAR COAT THE TRUTH and help anyone who suffers in silence. 

Please listen to Linkin Park- Leave Out All the Rest

Forever in my heart and forever missed..... 

 

 

 

  

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